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The New and Improved BDSM Checklist
Have you ever been exposed to HIV/AIDS?When were you last tested and which STI's were you testedfor? (chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes (blood test), HIV,hepatitis, etc.)?
RED:
Stop;
YELLOW:
I'm ok but slower/less/careful;
GREEN:
I'm fine, go
on, more
List any known allergies (i.e. latex, food, scents, oils, lotions,
Name: wool, feathers, animals, medications, etc.):Do you have any known STI's? Have you ever had any knownSTI's? If yes, please indicate which type and how it wastreated, if applicable.
Date:
I am mainly into: (D/s, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Fetish, Power Exchange,etc)? Do you have any medical problems/issues (hemophilia,allergies, asthma, breathing problems, blood sugar issues,circulation, heart condition, seizures,etc)? If yes, please givedetails:
Have you received any STI vaccinations (i.e. hepatitis A & B orHPV)?How often do you practice safe sex (always, most of the time,some of the time, never)? Please explain reasons for not doingso. Medications: Have you taken any medication, including Asprinwithin the last 4-6 hours (Asprin changes your blood's clottingtime). Please include a list of all prescription and over thecounter medications you are currently taking:Visible brusies, cuts, or marks must be avoided (yes or no)?Please list any no hit zones, if any:Do you have any phobias or fears that the Dom/Domme shouldbe aware of (blood, needles, enclosed areas, etc.)?Do you want aftercare (yes, no, only in certain circumstances,unsure, etc.)? Please explain.Do you like to talk after a scene (yes, no, maybe)? Pleaseexplain.Do you want extensive verbal communication during a scene?Please explain.
Anal Plugs - SmallAnal Plugs - MediumAnal Plugs - LargeAnal Plugs - public under clothesAnal SexAnimal Role PlayAnilingus (oral/anal stim) - givingAnilingus (oral/anal stim) - receivingAnkle RestraintsAnthropomorphic (false amputation)Arm & Leg Sleeves (binders)AromasAsphyxiationAttraction for Uncircumcised PenisAuctioned (for specified use bypurchaser)Auctioned for CharityAuctioned as SlaveAuto-Erotic AsphyxiationBall GagBall StretchingBareback (sex without condoms)Barosmia (arousal from flagellation)Bastinado (beating soles of feet)Bathroom Use ControlBattery Play (9 volt)Beating - hardBeating - softBBW (Big Beautiful Women)BeggingBeing Boxed (coffin, crate, cage, etc.)Being Serviced (sexually)Belly DancingBelly Punching
ACTIVITY
EVER DONE?
WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO?
Y/N
Rate?
Never
No Desire
Forced
Maybe
Yes
Ben Wa BallsBestiality (sex with animals)Bi-curiousBisexualityBiting (being bitten)Blackmail/Financial SubjectionBlindfolds (being blindfolded)Blood PlayBlow Up Sex DollsBlue Balls (ball torture)Body BagBody Piercing (temp)Body Piercing (perm)Bondage - lightBondage - heavyBondage - all day/multi dayBondage - ropesBondage - cuffsBondage - duct tapesBondage - JapaneseBondage - outdoor settingBondage - private settingBondage - public setting, under clothesBondage - steel, wire, metalBoot WorshipBrandingBreast BondageBreast FlagellationBreast FuckingBreast TortureBreast WhippingBreath Control (choking)Brown ShowersBruises
ACTIVITY
EVER DONE?
WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO?
Y/N
Rate?
Never
No Desire
Forced
Maybe
Yes
Clitoris vacuum PumpingClothespinsCock WorshipCold Play (place metal objects in ice &apply or secure to the skin - knives,chains, etc.)Collars - in privateCollars - in publicCollar and LeashCompetitions (with othersubs/slaves/bottoms)Consensual non ConsensualityContract SlaveCorsets - casualCorsets - trained waist reductionCorsets - for body modificationCo-ToppingCrawlingCross dressingCrucifixionCrystal Wand (tantric tool)Cuffs - leatherCuffs - metalCunnilingus - givingCunnilingus - receivingCunnilingus - while menstratingCunnilingus - while urinatingCupping - suction cupsCupping - fire cupsCutting - Blood PlayDacryphlia (arousal from tears)Daily DiaryDamsel in Distress FetishDeep ThroatingDental Gags- Retractors
ACTIVITY
EVER DONE?
WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO?
Y/N
Rate?
Never
No Desire
Forced
Maybe
Yes
Dental PlayDiapersDilationsDildo - on selfDildo - on partnerDildo - vaginalDildo - analDirected Daily ActivitiesDirty TalkDirty Sex (mud, dirt, oil, rubbish)DisciplineDouble Penetration - dildosDouble Penetration - multiple partnersDouchingEar PlugsEdge Play - risk takingElectric TortureElectric PlayElectric Play - high endElectricity - internal (egg or probe)Electricity - TENS unitElectricity - Violet WandEnemas - givingEnemas - receivingEnemas - for cleansingEnemas - retention/trainingEnemas - for punishmentEnforced ChastityErotic DanceErotic HumiliationExaminations - medicalExaminations - physicalExaminations - publicaly as slaveExercise
ACTIVITY
EVER DONE?
WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO?
Y/N
Rate?
Never
No Desire
Forced
Maybe
Yes
Finger SuckingFire PlayFisting - anal, givingFisting - anal, receivingFisting - vaginal, givingFisting - vaginal, receivingFisting - doubleFlame PlayFlogging - givingFlogging - receivingFollowing OrdersFood PlayFoot BindingFoot BondageFoot FetishFoot LickingFoot Massage - givingFoot Massage - receivingFoot WorshipForced BetwettingForced Cross DressingForced DressingForced EatingForced Domestic Serviceforced FeminizationForced HomosexualityForced HeterosexualityForced MasturbationForced Panty/Pants WettingForced Nudity - privateForced Nudity - publicForced Nudity - with groupForced Oral SexForced ServitudeForced Smoking
ACTIVITY
EVER DONE?
WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO?
Y/N
Rate?
Never
No Desire
Forced
Maybe
Yes
Frottage (arousal from rubbing ofclothed bodies)Full Head HoodsGags - bitGags - clothGags - dentalGags - funnelGags - inflatableGags - phallicGags - rubber ballGags - scarfGags - tapeGas MaskGenital ClampsGenital sexGenitorture - lightGenitorture - heavyGiantessGiven Away to Another Dominant(temp)Given Away to Another Dominant(perm)Glory HoleGolden Showers - on bodyGolden Showers - on face, hair, inmouthGor Slave Training (positions)Group Play - gang bang (multi-men)Group Play - multiple women & menGroup Play - orgyG-spotGun PlayHair BondageHair Cutting (head)Hair Cutting (body)
ACTIVITY
EVER DONE?
WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO?
Y/N
Rate?
Never
No Desire
Forced
Maybe
Yes
Ice CubesIce EnemasimmobilizationIncluding OthersInfantilismInfibulationInflatable ToysInitiations/GauntletsInjectionsInsertable Inflatable ToysInterrogationsIntricate (Japanese) Rope BondageJacking OffKali's Teeth BraceletKegal ExercisesKeloids (cutting and raising scars)KidnappingKneelingKneeling - longKnife Play (no blood)Kundalini (Chi)Labia ClipsLabia EnlargementLabia Saline InjectionsLabia StretchingLabia WeightsLatex ClothingLacation PlayLactating WomenLarge Insertable ToysLead on a LeashLeather ClothingLeatherman/womanLeather RestraintsLectures for Misbehavior
ACTIVITY
EVER DONE?
WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO?
Y/N
Rate?
Never
No Desire
Forced
Maybe
Yes
Leg Sleeve/BinderLicking - floorLicking - peopleLicking - toilet bowlLifting and carrying cradle style inarmsLingerie - on partnerLingerie - wearingLiquid RubberLitter Box UsingManacles, Shackles, Leg IronsManicures - givingManicure - receivingMantra & MeditationMassage - givingMassage - receivingMasturbationMasturbation - in front of partnerMasturbation - in front of othersMasturbation - with same sex groupMedical PlayMen in UnderwearMenstration FetishMind ControlMind FuckingModeling for Erotic PhotosMultiple OrgasmsMummificationMummification - elastic wrapMummifcation - saran wrapName Change - for sceneName Change - legal, permanentName Change - onlineNecrophilia (arousal by corpse orcorpse like state)
ACTIVITY
EVER DONE?
WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO?
Y/N
Rate?
Never
No Desire
Forced
Maybe
Yes
Phone Sex - serving Dom/DommePhone Sex - serving Dom/Domme'sfriendsPiercing (perm)Piercing (temp)PinchingPiqurer (stabbing with small objects incrowd)Plaster CastsPlastic SurgeryPlastic WrapPlushie FetishPony Girl/BoyPostillionage (inserting lubriatedfinger in anus)Practice Safe SexPrison ScenesProstitution - fantasyProstitution - realProstituion - forcedPublic ExposurePublic SexPumpingPunch Fucking (extreme fisting)Punishment - disciplinePunishment ScenePussy WhippingPussy WorshipPygmalionsim (sex with mannequins,statues, dolls)Queening (forcing vagina into mouth &nose)Rape & Abduction FantasyReligious ScenesRestrictive Rule on Behavior
ACTIVITY
EVER DONE?
WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO?
Y/N
Rate?
Never
No Desire
Forced
Maybe
Yes
Riding CropsRiding the Wooden Horse (crotchtorture)Rimming (oral/anal play) - givingRimming (oral/anal play) - receivingRituals/Ceremonies (non-religious)RoleplayingRope BondageRubber, Gummi, Latex, Spandex,Wetsuits FetishSacred Sex/Sacred SexualitySafe CallSaline Injection/Infusion (breasts,labia, testes)Scarification - strike brandingScarification - cautery brandingScarification - cold brandingScarification - cuttingScarification - ink rubbingScarifcation - skin removal/skinningScarification - packingScarification - abrasionScarves and Mask FetishScat (brown showers)Scratching - givingScratching - receivingSecret Sex in PublicSensory DeprivationServing as Art ObjectServing as AshtrayServe as FurnitureServe as Maid/ButlerServe as Toilet (feces)Serve as Toilet (urine)Serve as Waitress/Waiter
ACTIVITY
EVER DONE?
WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO?
Y/N
Rate?
Never
No Desire
Forced
Maybe
Yes
Spanking - with implementSpanking - wooden paddlesSpanking - (OTK) Over the KneeSpeculums - analSpeculums - vaginalSpeech Restrictions - what and whenSpitting - on bodySpitting - in mouthSpreader BarsStanding in Corner (punishment)Stocks/PilloryStraight JacketsStrap-on Dildos - penetrate anallyStrap-on Dildos - penetrate vaginallyStrap-on Dildos - sucking onStrap-on Dildos - wearingStrapping (full body beating)Submission - privateSubmission - publicSupplying New Partners forDom/DommeSuspension - horizontalSuspension - invertedSuspension - partially touching floor(on toes)Suspension - uprightSuspension by hookSwallowing FecesSwallowing SemenSwallowing UrineSwapping - with multiple couplesSwapping - with one coupleSwingingSwitchingTampon Training (insert in anus)
ACTIVITY
EVER DONE?
WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO?
Y/N
Rate?
Never
No Desire
Forced
Maybe
Yes
Tantra - Tantric & Taoist SexTattoos - henna/tempTattoos - permTeasingTENS unitThe HumblerThe ZipperThreesomeThumb BondageThumb Cuffs (metal)TicklingToe SuckingTopping From the BottomTotal Power Exchange (TPE)Triple Penetration - dildoTriple Penetration - multiple partners24/7Uniform (wearing)Upskirt, Stockings, Nylons, PantyhoseFetishUrethral Sounds (metal rods)Urethral PlayUse of Non-Verbal Safe WordsUse of Safe WordsVacuum Body Bag/Vacuum BondageBagVaginal IntercourseVampire GlovesVerbal AbuseVerbal HumiliationVibrator - externalVibrator - internalVibrator - analVibrator - vaginalVibrator - egg/internal
ACTIVITY
EVER DONE?
WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO?
Y/N
Rate?
Never
No Desire
Forced
Maybe
Yes
