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36 Questions for Deepening Intimate Relationships, Lecture notes of Literature

A set of 36 questions designed to help individuals deepen their understanding and connection in a romantic relationship. The questions cover various topics such as values, memories, dreams, and vulnerabilities. Some questions are repeated in different sets, allowing for a more in-depth conversation. The document also includes some additional questions not part of the original sets.

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2021/2022

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36 Questions That
Lead To Love
(Plus some of my other questions...)
Set I
1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say?
Why?
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a
30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would
it be?
Set II
13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or
anything else, what would you want to know?
14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you
done it?
15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
16. What do you value most in a friendship?
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36 Questions That

Lead To Love

(Plus some of my other questions...)

Set I

  1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
  2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
  3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
  4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
  5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
  6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
  7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
  8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
  9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
  10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
  11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.
  12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be? Set II
  13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
  14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
  15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
  16. What do you value most in a friendship?
  1. What is your most treasured memory?
  2. What is your most terrible memory?
  3. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
  4. What does friendship mean to you?
  5. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
  6. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.
  7. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
  8. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother? Set III
  9. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... “
  10. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “
  11. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
  12. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.
  13. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.
  14. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
  15. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.
  16. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
  17. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
  18. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
  19. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
  20. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.

If we could take a day off from all obligations to spend the day together, what’s one thing you’d like to do? When is the last time I did something that surprised you? What’s one new activity you’d like to try together? What’s one thing that would make our next date night exciting? What’s your favourite memory of us being intimate? Are you secretly embarrassed about anything you or I do? What’s the best time you’ve ever had? Is there anything I do that drives you absolutely insane? What’s your favourite thing about me? If you could have the answer to any question in the world what would that be? What’s one thing you would never change about me? What’s one thing you would change about me? What is something I did that you thought was exceptionally kind or thoughtful? What new hobbies or activities would you like to try together as a couple? What’s our greatest strength as a couple? What could we do to make our relationship stronger? What is something small that we can do daily for each other to make our lives better? What’s your favourite way we spend time together? What can I do to most help us? When am I at my sexiest? Talk about a significant event that caused a positive change in you as a person. Tell about a time when someone showed you kindness or compassion. Tell about a time when you showed compassion or kindness to someone else. What makes you excited? What was the last exciting experience you had? What is your favourite item of clothing and why is it your favourite? Write down five things you love the most about your spouse. Take a minute to guess what is on the other spouse’s list.